I’m not here to tone it down, I’m here to turn it up. I’m here to claim the sass, the sparkle, and the softness, while reminding the world that being a girl isn’t a phase. It isn’t a weakness or a stereotype either. It’s an art form. One that I’ve cultivated to kick ass. Being…
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Be With Women Who Mention You in a Room of Opportunities
There’s a certain kind of magic that happens when your name is spoken in a room you’re not in and don’t even know it exists. It’s even more magical when it’s not luck, it’s not chance, but it’s the magic of another woman who is mentioning you. It’s a voice that opens a door for…
Winter Solstice – A Dreamy Way To Close Out The Year
As the longest night of the year wraps the world in a velvet quiet, the Winter Solstice invites us to pause, reflect, and dream ahead. It’s a liminal moment, a cosmic hush between the ending and new beginning to come. What better way to honor it then with a spiritual reset to help blend the…
Color Crush Series….Bold Red
Red doesn’t enter a room quietly. It shouts “Hello” the second it crosses the threshold. It’s the lipstick a woman swipes when she needs encouragement. It’s the velvet ribbon that makes messy wrapping look chic and curated. It’s the wine stain you secretly call art on your favorite white rug. Bold red is all about…
My Messy Love Affair with Time
If punctuality were a personality trait, I’d be…well, I wouldn’t have it. I’m the girl who texts “On my way” while still blow drying my hair. I’m the coworker who joins 5 minutes late but always with the best intentions and all the answers. Sure, I’m a mess but my lateness is wrapped up in…
Being a Woman In A Male‑Dominated Industry
Showing up as yourself in a room designed for someone else is a reality most people don’t sign up for. Although you usually end up leaving that room a little sharper and smarter, you also leave far more guarded. I work in the legal world as a legal researcher in intellectual property. I focus on…
ADHD, Creativity, and Working From Home
I have ADHD. The first time a therapist brought it up was when I was 13 but I didn’t get an official diagnosis until I was 19. I do my best to try and not lead with this info and make it my identity, but it is in fact part of my identity. At least…
Finding Joy In Spontaneity
Remember how I just did a blog like a week ago about perfectionism and how it kills the joy of creating? Well, this week I hit a wall. I just couldn’t stop the thoughts. I couldn’t stop inspections and needed to plan out the creative project verse just creating. I’m only human and I even…
Why Romanticizing Your Life Isn’t Silly—It’s Survival
Romanticizing your life isn’t about pretending everything’s perfect. It’s about choosing to see the poetry in the chaos, the sparkle in the mundane, and the magic in your messy, beautiful story. Romancing your life is lighting a candle before you answer emails. It’s narrating your walk to get the mail like you’re in a rom-com…
Color Horoscope Series…Sagittarius
Sagittarius season is here, and she’s not knocking, she’s kicking down the door in her thigh high boots and glittering smile. Sagittarius is the sign of wanderlust, wild ideas, and vulnerability. Sagittarius is sequins and sass. She asks nobody for permission. She grabs the mic, makes her presence known, and dares you to dance along…