You know that moment when you’re cooking a full, respectable, grown‑woman meal, something with actual ingredients, actual steps, actual cookware, and suddenly you’re standing there eating cheese and crackers like a raccoon who broke into a charcuterie board. Not because you’re starving. Not because the meal is complicated. But because your ADHD brain whispered, “We…
Why Fall Makes Me Reflect More Deeply
Fall Always Sneaks Up on Me in the Softest Way Every year, fall arrives like a gentle plot twist, not loud, not demanding, just quietly slipping into the scene with cooler mornings and leaves that look like they’re blushing. And suddenly, without warning, I’m thinking about my life more deeply than I have in months….
Killer Heels Saturdays: Publishing – Traditional vs. Indie- Which Runway Do You Walk? Pros & Cons of Each Publishing Route (The Real Talk Edition) Part 3
The Million‑Dollar Question…. Which Path Is YOUR Path? Welcome to Part 3, the final walk down the publishing runway, where the lights are bright, the stakes are high, and the existential crisis is… honestly kind of fun at this point. You’ve learned the vibes. You’ve survived the pros and cons. You’ve seen the sparkles and…
The Unhinged Life Coach: How to Find Your Purpose by Taking a Vibe Based Approach
Purpose Is a Feeling, Not a Spreadsheet Let’s be honest: the traditional advice about “finding your purpose” is exhausting. People say things like…. “Make a five‑year plan.” “Identify your core values.” “Find your passion.” “Create SMART goals.”…. Okay, productivity princess, some of us are just trying to remember where we left our lip balm. I…
The Delulu Diaries: I Didn’t Overreact, I Added Flavor
Let’s get one thing straight…. I don’t “overreact.” I enhance the moment. I add seasoning. I add color. I add narrative tension. I add the kind of emotional paprika that makes life taste less like plain oatmeal and more like a chaotic, slightly unhinged rom‑com. People who call me dramatic are simply unseasoned. They’re living…
Killer Heels Saturdays: Publishing – Traditional vs. Indie- Which Runway Do You Walk? Pros & Cons of Each Publishing Route (The Real Talk Edition) Part 2
Welcome Back to the Runway….Let’s Talk Consequences Alright superstar, today we’re doing what most writing blogs refuse to do: tell the truth. Not the Pinterest version. Not the “just follow your dreams” version. The actual version, the one that saves you time, money, and emotional breakdowns. Let’s get into the pros and cons of each…
The Chaos Anthropologist: Vol. 5 – A Field Study of The “I’ll Reply Later” Lie
The Most Universal Lie of Modern Communication There is a very specific human behavior that fascinates me more than any other. It’s not ghosting. It’s not breadcrumbing. It’s not even the people who send voice notes longer than a podcast episode. It’s the lie we all tell ourselves with full confidence and zero follow‑through: “I’ll…
Soft Girl Survival Guide – The Cozy Girl Constitution: Laws I Live By
I’m starting a new series, and kind of reframing another one I have to combine with this one, because it’s not like I don’t have enough but it’s called, The Soft Girl Survival Guide, because honestly sometimes, life is loud, chaotic, and aggressively uncozy, and someone needs to document how we’re surviving it with iced…
Killer Heels Saturdays: Publishing – Traditional vs. Indie- Which Runway Do You Walk? Part 1
The Publishing Runway: What You’re Actually Signing Up For Alright babe, grab your iced coffee and your delusional writer confidence, because today we’re stepping onto the publishing runway. This is where dreams sparkle, timelines drag, and every writer is secretly wondering if they’re about to be discovered or ignored like a clearance rack sundress. This…
The Feminine Urge to Be Mysterious… While Oversharing
The Duality Is My Love Language There’s a very specific feminine urge that nobody warns you about….the urge to be mysterious, while also telling everyone everything. I want to be an enigma, a whisper, a soft blur in the background but also, here’s my entire emotional thesis, my skincare routine, my childhood trauma, and a…
