ADHD, Creativity, and Working From Home

I have ADHD. The first time a therapist brought it up was when I was 13 but I didn’t get an official diagnosis until I was 19. I do my best to try and not lead with this info and make it my identity, but it is in fact part of my identity. At least…

Finding Joy In Spontaneity

Remember how I just did a blog like a week ago about perfectionism and how it kills the joy of creating? Well, this week I hit a wall. I just couldn’t stop the thoughts. I couldn’t stop inspections and needed to plan out the creative project verse just creating. I’m only human and I even…

Why Romanticizing Your Life Isn’t Silly—It’s Survival

Romanticizing your life isn’t about pretending everything’s perfect. It’s about choosing to see the poetry in the chaos, the sparkle in the mundane, and the magic in your messy, beautiful story. Romancing your life is lighting a candle before you answer emails. It’s narrating your walk to get the mail like you’re in a rom-com…

Color Horoscope Series…Sagittarius

Sagittarius season is here, and she’s not knocking, she’s kicking down the door in her thigh high boots and glittering smile. Sagittarius is the sign of wanderlust, wild ideas, and vulnerability. Sagittarius is sequins and sass. She asks nobody for permission. She grabs the mic, makes her presence known, and dares you to dance along…

One Of My New Love Languages—Feedback

When most people think of love languages they think of acts of service or physical touch. Before this blog I would have said quality time. Giving me undivided attention with conversation and some board games or a movie after cooking dinner together. Although I still want all that, I’ve found a new appreciation for a…

Confessions of a Creative Perfectionist

A big part of why I walked away from creating was me. Simply put it was just me. I couldn’t get out of my own way. I couldn’t stop over thinking everything I did. A part of finding some success came pride but also doubt. Instead of just creating and playing with new ideas, everything…