Some people chase enlightenment like it’s a limited edition drop. They meditate at sunrise, journal in linen notebooks, and drink herbal teas that taste like regret. Meanwhile, you accidentally become a better person because you drank water, minded your business, and chose peace simply because you were too tired to choose violence. This is the…
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Killer Heels Saturdays – Chapter 16: Revisions in Stilettos Cutting Chapters Without Losing Soul Part I
The Emotional Archaeology of Cutting Chapters The Day I Realized My Chapter Was Toxic Listen… nothing humbles a girl faster than rereading a chapter she once thought was Pulitzer‑adjacent and realizing it’s actually giving “I wrote this during a personality blackout.” Cutting a chapter feels like breaking up with someone who still has your hoodie….
Lupus & Brain Fog: When Your Mind Gets Misty for No Reason at All
Living with lupus means navigating symptoms that don’t always make sense to other people and sometimes don’t make sense to you either. One of the most confusing (and most common) is brain fog: that hazy, slow, glitchy feeling where your thoughts don’t quite connect the way they normally do. Brain fog isn’t just “forgetfulness.” It’s…
ADHD Society: ADHD Paralysis
Why Starting A Task Feels Physically Impossible Even When You Want To Do It Let’s set the scene. You sit down with the purest intentions. You have your beverage. You have your playlist. You have your laptop open like a responsible adult who is ready to conquer life. You even whisper something motivational like, “Today…
Killer Heels Saturdays — Chapter 15: Pitching To Agents In Killer Heels Part III
AGENTS, SCAMS & THE PUBLISHING JUNGLE Welcome to the Jungle, Babe Publishing is glamorous from the outside. It’s all book deals, launch parties, champagne, tote bags. Behind the scenes? It’s a jungle. A stylish jungle, but a jungle nonetheless. This is where we talk about who to pitch, who to avoid, the scams, the red…
The Delulu Diaries: I’m Not Avoiding Reality, I’m Curating It…. Cue The Drama
A PR Approved Explanation For Why I Simply Decline To Acknowledge Chaos A Statement From My Internal PR Team Before we begin, my internal PR department would like to issue an official clarification. There have been rumors circulating that I am avoiding reality. That I am ignoring my responsibilities. That I am pretending the chaos…
Always In Her Own Head: How I Turned a Simple Text Message Into a Full Greek Tragedy
Welcome to The Girl Who’s Always in Her Own Head, a soft‑chaotic, emotionally athletic, mentally overbooked series dedicated to the art of overthinking. This is not a mindfulness blog. This is not a self‑help journey. This is a documentary of what actually happens inside the brain of a woman who can turn a TikTok into…
Killer Heels Saturdays — Chapter 15: Pitching To Agents In Killer Heels Part 2
Welcome to the Strategy Era Part I was about the emotional chaos of querying, Part II is about the mechanics. The actual craft of pitching your book like a stylish, strategic, slightly unhinged professional. This is where we stop crying over rejections and start sharpening our query letters like stilettos. Let’s talk about how querying…
The Unhinged Life Coach: How to Protect Your Peace by Muting Everyone
My brain loves to serve e two kinds of advice…. the feral, unfiltered, “burn it all down and start fresh” kind…. And then ten seconds later, the painfully polite, socially acceptable version that won’t get me cancelled or written up by H.R. So welcome to me being me. The completely unhinged advice I would give…
Conversations I Had in My Head Instead of Real Life: Overthinking as a Narrative Art Form
There are people who journal. There are people who meditate. Then there’s me, a woman who holds full Broadway‑level conversations entirely in her head, complete with lighting, costume changes, and a soundtrack that does not match the situation at all. I don’t just overthink. I produce. My brain is basically a 24/7 writers’ room staffed…
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