Living with lupus means navigating symptoms that don’t always make sense to other people and sometimes don’t make sense to you either. One of the most confusing (and most common) is brain fog: that hazy, slow, glitchy feeling where your thoughts don’t quite connect the way they normally do. Brain fog isn’t just “forgetfulness.” It’s…
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ADHD Society: ADHD Paralysis
Why Starting A Task Feels Physically Impossible Even When You Want To Do It Let’s set the scene. You sit down with the purest intentions. You have your beverage. You have your playlist. You have your laptop open like a responsible adult who is ready to conquer life. You even whisper something motivational like, “Today…
Killer Heels Saturdays — Chapter 15: Pitching To Agents In Killer Heels Part III
AGENTS, SCAMS & THE PUBLISHING JUNGLE Welcome to the Jungle, Babe Publishing is glamorous from the outside. It’s all book deals, launch parties, champagne, tote bags. Behind the scenes? It’s a jungle. A stylish jungle, but a jungle nonetheless. This is where we talk about who to pitch, who to avoid, the scams, the red…
The Delulu Diaries: I’m Not Avoiding Reality, I’m Curating It…. Cue The Drama
A PR Approved Explanation For Why I Simply Decline To Acknowledge Chaos A Statement From My Internal PR Team Before we begin, my internal PR department would like to issue an official clarification. There have been rumors circulating that I am avoiding reality. That I am ignoring my responsibilities. That I am pretending the chaos…
Always In Her Own Head: How I Turned a Simple Text Message Into a Full Greek Tragedy
Welcome to The Girl Who’s Always in Her Own Head, a soft‑chaotic, emotionally athletic, mentally overbooked series dedicated to the art of overthinking. This is not a mindfulness blog. This is not a self‑help journey. This is a documentary of what actually happens inside the brain of a woman who can turn a TikTok into…
Killer Heels Saturdays — Chapter 15: Pitching To Agents In Killer Heels Part 2
Welcome to the Strategy Era Part I was about the emotional chaos of querying, Part II is about the mechanics. The actual craft of pitching your book like a stylish, strategic, slightly unhinged professional. This is where we stop crying over rejections and start sharpening our query letters like stilettos. Let’s talk about how querying…
The Unhinged Life Coach: How to Protect Your Peace by Muting Everyone
My brain loves to serve e two kinds of advice…. the feral, unfiltered, “burn it all down and start fresh” kind…. And then ten seconds later, the painfully polite, socially acceptable version that won’t get me cancelled or written up by H.R. So welcome to me being me. The completely unhinged advice I would give…
Killer Heels Saturdays — Chapter 15: Pitching To Agents In Killer Heels Part 1
Welcome to the Runway of Rejection As you know I’m writing this Killer Heels series as I write, pitch, launch, etc. all the things for my first book. So, these blogs come out just a few weeks behind what I’m doing in real time. It’s slightly delayed so I can gather all the info I…
The 7 Step Process of Leaving the House Without Spiraling
There is a very specific kind of psychological warfare that happens when I try to leave her house. It’s not dramatic. It’s not life threatening. It is the kind of thing that makes you sit on the edge of your bed for twenty minutes staring into the void like you’re buffering. Because leaving the house…
The Chaos Anthropologist: Vol. 3 – A Field Study of The Group Chat Archetypes
Welcome back to the digital wilderness. Today I’m venturing into one of the most unpredictable habitats known as modern anthropology. The group chat. A place where logic goes to nap, notifications multiply like fruit flies, and everyone is somehow both online and unavailable at the same time. A topic I am intimately familiar with as…
